Tough Guys

smey

Commoner
VIP
I've fell in love with a chick before but.she ended up breaking my heart she made me depressed for a good 2 years but I got over it I said to my self that I will.never fall in love ever again right.now is all about.using chick for sex I like having a 1 night stand I don't trust Canadian girls no-more even if they are asian I don't believe in love with asian or white girls I am 1 of those shy.types when we first meet but when I am drunk I am so wild I go all out just start flirting with chick some.times I don't even have to flirt.with girl they just come to me I use my handsomeness as an advantage but I feel bad for.my cuz because in a club he try so hard but can't get anything I feel bad for him:( I always try to help him out but nothing ever works
 

Hamster

Level 2
Swordsman
Wanderer
Most people don't trust me or scared of me now. It doesn't feel good now cause its hard to get people to trust me and make people feel secure around me. The girl I pursue for the last month just told I look like a serial killer and that she doesn't trust me. That hurts a lot.
Let's say that a girl has had bad experiences with guys and is now distrusting of men. What should we do to gain her trust and break down the wall she put up?
 

pocketkiriyama

Commoner
I got a lot of catching up to do on this site. By the way Happy, I was there in your area last month. I spent a week going through Portland, Seattle and Vancouver area. We could've hang if I knew. Anyway, I'm the last thing you'd call tough looking or even masculine but that's because I'm 5'3. I gave up trying to be tough and just be proper but it does not mean I can't hold my hold own. Most of the time that I get into fights is because I was getting bullied by mostly bigger guys so I'm use to taking down much bigger opponents. As for the thing about guys and girls being friends, I believe it is possible. I've known many female friends and even got drunk together on occasions but nothing ever happens. I even took a girl home one time and she was drunk and it seems like she was trying to hit on me. I'm not a gentleman but I don't believe in taking advantage of a woman when she's intoxicated. She might or might not be thinking straight.
 

Erdalee

Commoner
You know what, I was thinking about that the other day. I don't think that women and men can really be friends. It's either one or both of us will develop feelings for the other. And now that I think about it, all of my close female friends are married. And the ones who are single aren't really friends, more like acquaintances, or I see them as sisters.
Most of my friends are males, my 3 best friends are males, one is my ex boyfriend and the other two, I've never had any sexual encounters with and we have been friends for 18 years. Having male friends is fun and they share so many interest with me. We love going to the football, beers and eating, something that I don't share with my girlfriends.
 

Erdalee

Commoner
Don't me wrong, my girlfriend are also amazing. I love them, just telling you that females and males can be friends without sex being involved. There might be sexual attraction of some sort but as long as we respect one another then it's shouldn't affect the friendship.
 

Hunnie

Level 3
Legendary
VIP
Don't me wrong, my girlfriend are also amazing. I love them, just telling you that females and males can be friends without sex being involved. There might be sexual attraction of some sort but as long as we respect one another then it's shouldn't affect the friendship.

I agreed Erdalee, :)
 

Bluebird

Guest
I agreed Erdalee, :)
It's easy to say than done; the urges to resist the beauty of the opposite sex attraction are almost impossible;
especially, when there're alcohols involve and your mind is at it's weakest link of that moment.;)
Nevertheless, it can be done.:)
 

ami

Commoner
Let's say that a girl has had bad experiences with guys and is now distrusting of men. What should we do to gain her trust and break down the wall she put up?
tell her watch more tyler perry's movies :D


P.S. Any of my grammar error, please see my #1 professor Hamster.
 
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